Saturday, January 31, 2009

SUPER BOWL 43 and NBC, not hurting in this economy

Well, it’s not as exciting as Obama taking the oath of office, but…IT’S SUPER BOWL TIME. Since I really don’t care that much about either of the teams (maybe next year Jets!!), it’s all about food and the commercials.

I’m really proud to say, that I had a hand in working with one of the top 10 Super Bowl commercials of all time…EDS 'Hurding Cats in 1998. It was Super Bowl XXXV, my first real PR client and what a blast it was!! I remember having a Super bowl party at my house and shushing people when the commercial came on. The Baltimore Ravens defeated the New York Giants 34-7. It still gives me such pride…my baby!!! I think the only other commercial that makes me smile and gives me such a ‘warm-fuzzy’ is the original “Mean Joe Green” commercial. If memory serves me, it’s the first commercial I remember watching the game with my dad…hence my love of the game and the commercials that makes the Super Bowl so special.

I think the only thing that disturbs me this year about the Super Bowl, isn’t if it’s going to be a good game. If there are enough Buffalo wings, chili, snacks and beverages, that’s the making for a good time. What upsets me is the staggering amount of money it costs for 30-seconds of commercial time. NBC said on the eve of Sunday's Super Bowl that it has sold 69 advertising spots for the game, pushing total ad revenue for the event to a record $206 million. That’s $3million for 30-seconds of airtime.

The network said its total of $261 million in ad revenue for all of Super Bowl day also is a record, calling it an especially impressive feat in the middle of the economy's steep downturn.

Did you know…
There are a few companies that are bowing out this year due to economic realities; FedEx, Charmin, and GM. Good for you!!

What is really sad is apparently, after laying off 1,400 employees last month, Budweiser Brewer’s new Belgian owner is going for a full 4 ½ min of airtime. That’s just over $25million. Guess what’s what happens when you cut your employees; you have a little extra cash to ‘spare’. You should be ashamed!! Please know that I’ll NEVER drink your beer again, and will encourage everyone I know to drink anything other than Budweiser products. When a company is willing to cut that many people, claim they are cash poor and then turn around and spend it on a commercial tells me a lot about your morals and ethics.

Sorry for the rant. Well, I hope that the game is a good one but as I said for me, this year it’s all about the commercials. I'm looking forward to the Jets coming back strong this year and playing in 2010. Here’s to the best team winning. Here's to commercials that are hopefully worth the money spent.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

To tired to write...but here's a joke for ya.

I want to thank those of you who have read my blog and have offered prayers and positive thoughts during my surgery (see previous post if you have no idea what I'm talking about :-)). I'm still a bit to tired to think of anything "deep" to write, so today's post is from my mom. She wanted to cheer me up with a joke and I found it funny...I hope you do too. Maybe you have to be catholic to really understand it...I don't know. I'm off to take more meds...see ya soon.


Strange Customs

A distinguished-looking young woman on a flight from Ireland asked the Priest beside her, "Father, may I ask a favor?"

"Of course, child. What may I do for you?"

"Well, I bought an expensive woman's electronic hair dryer for my Mother's birthday that is unopened and well over the Customs limits, and I'm afraid they'll confiscate it. Is there any way you could carry it through customs for me? Under your robes perhaps?"

"I would love to help you, dear, but I must warn you: I will not lie."

"With your honest face, Father, no one will question you."

When they got to Customs, she let the priest go ahead of her. The official asked, "Father, do you have anything to declare?"

"From the top of my head down to my waist, I have nothing to declare."

The official thought this answer strange, so asked, "And what do you have to declare from your waist to the floor?"

"I have a marvelous instrument designed to be used on a woman, but which is, to date, unused."

Roaring with laughter, the official said, "Go ahead, Father! Next."

Thursday, January 22, 2009

3 Years, 4 Days and 5 Surgeries later,a Long and Crazy Road

"When we can no longer change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." Victor Frankel.

This may be the last time I write about this, in this format. I'm not going to go into all the history, but in preparing for this day I can almost say, I'm at peace. Of course I'm writing this several days before so it will post on the 22nd without me and I don't know what will happen between now and then.

I've done the stress reduction classes, I'm under a holistic care program, I've taken all the vitamins, minerals, eye of frog and tongue of a wild bird only found on the highest mountain on the 44 planet of Zar....you get the point. I'm trying not to let the other things in my life, stress me out too much. I'm remembering to breathe and enjoy every bite of food. I am listening to music that makes me want to shake my money maker... and reconnecting with old friends who make me laugh at the memories of our youth. I am trying not to cry.

Today is the day that 3 and 5 becomes my magic numbers, and life takes on a new meaning. This is the beginning of my life and I'm going to embrace what ever the outcome of this surgery is. I will get my groove back.

I am adding this on Jan 21 - I thought that I would be fine. I was praticing all that I wrote above. I was really doing ok. Then the phone calls from the hospital started "You will be here tomorrow right?" duh!! "You do know what's going to happen right" Duh again!! You need to do XYZ and no eating/drinking beyond midnight". Does that mean I can get drunk now?? PLEASE??? I know that won't help so why bother right? I tried to be positive and to remain calm and it worked...to a point. Now as I take a break from packing my overnight bag...I'm burning Lavender candles and my heart rate is calming down. I will have a friend with me and you know what - sometimes all you need is someone there to hold your hand, make you laugh and tell you it will be ok. To wish for a hug is almost more than I dare to wish for, but I now it will be there as well...so...

I think the next date will be 8 weeks from now...that will be the test to see if we toast to success...or we toast a completion. Maybe we will toast to both, but I know THAT DAY I will be having champagne with my friends and I'll be at peace. No Matter What...I'm ready for this to be over. I'm taking my life back!

IF you happen to read this post between Jan 22 and 8 weeks from now, if you could help visualize a hole getting smaller and smaller until there is absolutely no space left; that not even a sliver of air can pass through; that it is completely sealed off so tight that nothing can pass or penetrate. Finally that this hole is completely healed and I am made whole again. If you could just hold me in good thoughts and good health, I would be eternally grateful.



Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Signed, Sealed, Delivered He’s OUR President.

I feel as if tonight there are so many songs that reflect what I’m feeling but Alicia Keys sang it best, “No one, no one, can get in the way of what I’m feeling…”

I’ve finally had a few moments to sit and reflect on what has happened today. I admit I have been moved by this moment in history. I’ve also been deeply touched by the stories of people who lived through the civil rights marches and moved by their reaction, as they watched Barack take the pledge of office. The smartest little people I met today inspire me. I truly believe if you want insight and the truth, ask someone under nine years old. They’re not jaded yet.

As I do sit here, tired from my running around today I am going to say once again how proud I am of Barack and of this country. I pray that they allow him a moment, but just a moment for there is work to be done, and miles to go before his next good nights sleep.

The critics have already said that Supreme Court Chief Justice John Roberts, dropped the ball when he misspoke the order of the Oath of Office. Some blame it on Barack. One woman said “He should have memorized it”. I think the pause he took was a reflection that he DID know what to say and gave Justice Roberts a moment to re-group. Look, I can only imagine walking through those doors to a sea of millions, knowing that every step you take, every decision you now make, truly rests on your shoulders and you know your critics will be watching you. Likewise I can imagine what it’s like to administer this oath to the President. It was excitement, and you know what he’s human so maybe a bit scared as well. Look, if this is the worse flub of during his presidency, we’ll be fine.

At the Neighborhood ball as they danced, someone said, "It's like they actually like each other". I know and wasn’t looking at two people obviously in love, wonderful. I know this type of love exists because of my parents and of the parents of many of my friends. Hopefully this creates a new stereotype.

My final thoughts are quite simple. This is more than a moment in history. This is more than the first black President. This is more than the history of the past (even though it helped shape this moment); this is the making of the Future.

The Economy, Healthcare, The War in Iraq, Gay Rights and the list goes on. These are the things President Obama will be judged on, not a flub of an oath, or how close he held his wife on the dance floor. These are the things that secure his win, not his ability to rock to Stevie Wonder, how cute the girls are (even though they really are) or his mother-in-law moving in with them.

So as I fold myself into bed finally, the sun is just beginning to rise in the distance. No matter I still have a smile on my face. I am so grateful to my ancestors and my parents for their struggles and the strength they gave me. I look forward and will continue to work hard for those that will come after me. It is my hope to make their world a little but better than mine. You see, Barack isn’t the only one with work to do.

Yes today was historic, but this is not the end. This is the dawn of a new day. We all have miles to go before we can sleep, but until then I wish you peace.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Barack Hassian Obama - 44th President of the United States of America

I was completely moved by the events of this day. I am hopeful that this is the beginning of an amazing presidency, as well as the beginning of a New UNITED States.

I share with you the transcript of the 44th President of the United States, Barack Hussein Obama.


My fellow citizens: I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors.



I thank President Bush for his service to our nation...

... as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition.





Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath.

The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forbearers, and true to our founding documents.




So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans.

That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age.


Homes have been lost, jobs shed, businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly, our schools fail too many, and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet.





These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable, but no less profound, is a sapping of confidence across our land; a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, that the next generation must lower its sights.



Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real, they are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this America: They will be met.

On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord.



On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn-out dogmas that for far too long have strangled our politics.

We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness.


In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less.


It has not been the path for the faint-hearted, for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame.


Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things -- some celebrated, but more often men and women obscure in their labor -- who have carried us up the long, rugged path towards prosperity and freedom.


For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life. For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West, endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth.


For us, they fought and died in places Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn.


Time and again these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction.


This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions -- that time has surely passed.



Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America.

For everywhere we look, there is work to be done.

The state of our economy calls for action: bold and swift. And we will act not only to create new jobs but to lay a new foundation for growth.


We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together.

We will restore science to its rightful place and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality...

... and lower its costs.


We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age.


All this we can do. All this we will do.


Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions, who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short, for they have forgotten what this country has already done, what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose and necessity to courage.


What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them, that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long, no longer apply.

The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works, whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified.

Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end.


And those of us who manage the public's knowledge will be held to account, to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day, because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government.

Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched.

But this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control. The nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous.


The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our gross domestic product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on the ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart -- not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good.

As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals.

Our founding fathers faced with perils that we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations.


Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake.

And so, to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and we are ready to lead once more.

Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with the sturdy alliances and enduring convictions.


They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use. Our security emanates from the justness of our cause; the force of our example; the tempering qualities of humility and restraint.

We are the keepers of this legacy, guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort, even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We'll begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people and forge a hard- earned peace in Afghanistan.


With old friends and former foes, we'll work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat and roll back the specter of a warming planet.

We will not apologize for our way of life nor will we waver in its defense.

And for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that, "Our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken. You cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you."

For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness.


We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus, and nonbelievers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth.

And because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace.

To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect.


To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict or blame their society's ills on the West, know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy.

To those...

To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history, but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist.

To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds.

And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to the suffering outside our borders, nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it.


As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages.

We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service: a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves.

And yet, at this moment, a moment that will define a generation, it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all.


For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies.

It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break; the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours.

It is the fire fighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate.

Our challenges may be new, the instruments with which we meet them may be new, but those values upon which our success depends, honesty and hard work, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism -- these things are old.


These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history.

What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility -- a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation and the world, duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character than giving our all to a difficult task.

This is the price and the promise of citizenship.


This is the source of our confidence: the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny.

This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed, why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent mall. And why a man whose father less than 60 years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath.

So let us mark this day in remembrance of who we are and how far we have traveled.

In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by nine campfires on the shores of an icy river.


The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood.

At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people:

"Let it be told to the future world that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive, that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet it."

America, in the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words; with hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come; let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations.


God Bless You. And God bless the United States of America.

I Agree with Sasha...Great Job Mr. President.

Monday, January 19, 2009

Today Kings Dream – Tomorrow Obamas

On November 4, 2008, millions of able American voters, elected Barack Hussein Obama based on the content of his character and his proposed policies, and not the color of his skin. Tomorrow, this segment of Dr. Kings’ 46 year old dream, will become a reality.

Only a simple minded person, or one who thought that because of THIS election of a Black man to the nations highest office, would eradicate racism in this country. Nope, no such luck. What it does however signify is that maybe this country that I love, my home is moving in the right direction. The election of this man (and hey, let’s not forget that there was a woman running on the Republican ticket for Vice President – no matter what you thought of her, that is history as well) has created proof for a new generation who weren’t alive during the King days. Hopefully it will aspire more of them to take the cause of community service, and maybe one day they too can be president, should that be their dream. It’s not an easy road but I believe the rewards for a job well done are immeasurable.

As a people we have been shaken by war, the economic crisis and continued terror threats. I don’t think we have ever been more stirred, than by the passion for change, the desire to created a better country or the throngs of people that have converged on the Nations Capital in the last several days. Those that are lucky enough to be close enough to touch, or those so far away they can only be touched by the spirit of the day.

The last several days have been palatable.

Dr. King taught us about sacrifice, rising up during difficult times, working together to achieve our goals. Given all that has happened especially in the last several years, we need this spirit more than ever. I wonder what he would have thought about this day had he lived?

As we celebrate the life and mission of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and prepare for tomorrows inauguration, let us continue to build a new path of inclusion, bright futures and the ability to allow dreams to come true.

There was an old Negro Spiritual that was later adapted for Freedom Riders of the 60’s. I think the lyrics were poignant then and now.

Ain’t gonna let nobody turn me ‘roun’
Turn me ‘roun’
Ain’t gonna let nobody turn me ‘roun’
I’m gonna wait until my change comes

Don’t let nobody turn you ‘roun’
Turn you ‘roun’
Don’t let nobody turn you ‘roun’
Wait until your change comes

I say I’m gonna hold out
Hold out, hold out
I say that I’m gonna hold out
Until my change comes

I promised the lord that I would hold out
Hold out
I promised the Lord that I would hold out
Wait until my change comes.



TOMORROW…Change Comes.


Sunday, January 18, 2009

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY TO ME!!!

No it's not a wedding, nor a 'birth'day (well not really). 3 years ago today my life changed and good, BAD or truly frustrating, I'm celebrating all that I've learned. It's been a learning curve and I think I'm on the upper part of it now.

3...is a magic number :-)

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Staying true to you

What a week it’s been. I’ve been working hard doing the networking thing….and you know it’s provided some insights which I hope to share with you soon.

But last week, I wrote about Facebook and the obsession that it is. Well I may have to take back any criticism shared, since I’ve now located about 20 people from my youth group days as well as some cousins I’ve not seen in YEARS. May I even say that I located a former boyfriend and WOW did he age well. The last two days have been a test of just how fast I could type (90wpm thank you very much) to keep up with the flurry of “Where have you been”, “You look amazing”, “Yes, let’s get together and please take that 1990 pic of us off the internet”. I honestly can’t remember the last time I laughed so much. So to confirm and say it loud “My name is Lisa and I am a Facebook Addict”
Please feel free to once again insert your own name in place of mine.

I know my mom is a regular reader of my blog and she is saying…what is face book? I’ll explain later - or ask your son to show you. Maybe we can get you on here as well…a true family affair!!

I have also been wondering what to write about. Sometimes there are just so many things going on in my head I can’t pick. What I decided to do today is give an update on a few of my favorite 25 things.

I have accomplished:
Reconnect with at least 1 person from my past. I’ve actually connected with 20 so far. As I said it gave me such joy and it’s so much fun to look at people and see if they’ve changed. Some of these guys I remember from the ages of 16 and now we are all in our late 30’s- late 40’s. It really brought back so many fun memories of our ‘teen club’ with Fr. Kavanagh on Wed. nights at the church and the retreats – OH THE RETREATS!!! The spirit and vitality of those times are what I miss and am working to recapture this year. I know that the blessing of FB is that I can connect with these guys and we’ve already started planning a reunion – oh man!! That will be a blast!!

Ask for help when I need it. I think that even thought I did that this week I’ll keep this on the list as a constant reminder that it’s ok to do this. It doesn’t make me weak or less of a person. I know when people ask me for help I’m ready to, so it’s not so bad to not be so strong ‘all the time’.

Wear something really sexy and expensive. Can you say Manolo Blahnik!! OH how I love these shoes and wish I could afford them. If you don’t know what they are I don’t know where you’ve been livin’. They were the best shoes BEFORE ‘Sex and the City’, but Carrie took them to another level. If you are in the know (meaning if you’ve bought them directly from the store before – or just read the NY Times when they post their annual sale), you know that they always have a ‘pre-sale’ the Sat before the actual sale starts on Monday. When money was no issue (oh those were the days), I did purchase 3 pair of these little gems that way. If you like really pretty things, it really is an experience just to hold them. Even at amazing heights of 4 or 5 inches, they are so comfy… Sorry about that – I was drooling for a second. Anywho, I tried on a pair of beautiful strappy 4.5inch python shoes that were amazing. They were at the lovely sale price of $590…reduced from the original $1495. How could one not buy them – easy, NO MONEY. I did however get my monies worth just by people watching. You can tell they were power shoppers with money (or their husbands credit card). The bling in the place was blinding, and the attitude was as cold as the ice they were wearing. I love the sales associates because they don’t take their attitudes seriously. It’s written all over their faces. So imagine this – here I walk in, black jeans, simple jacket and my hair in a ponytail. I didn’t really think I would stop in but since I was in the neighborhood… I am walking through the store and pick up shoes to try. These Park/Madison Ave. babes are giving me the look like I had the plague, until the sales associates I knew saw me and 2 of them said “Oh my god where have you been – it’s been ages since we’ve seen you. Here have a seat and we’ll get these for you.” Then a new friend who I told about the sale, she happened to be there and she squealed, “Lisa, you look amazing.” Now these chicks are beginning to wonder “Who is she??” Now, all of a sudden I’m the one they want to know. Sometimes I find humor in the little thing. Sadly the shoes I wanted weren’t in my size and frankly I couldn’t afford them now anyway so maybe that’s a good thing. In the end there were air kisses all around and the sea of women parted as I left. Yes I love power even if it’s fleeting.

That was my week and I’m hoping that next week is just as good. One can only hope. So what things have you done this week? Are you staying true to your New Years resolutions? If not…hey you can always start over…that’s the good thing about wanting to make thing better, just “do it over”.

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

Do You Facebook??

Ok so I admit I am a tech-geek. A cute geek, but a geek non the less. I will also admit that I've gotten hooked on Facebook. Yes it's a great way to quickly send notes to your friends and family, but it is also addictive. So much so that I (and I'm embarrassed to admit) have it on my crack, I mean blackberry.

Sometimes it's pretty cool to see what's going on, get 'poked', have a hug or fancy drink sent to you. I do admit I would prefer to be hugged for real, I've been 'poked' enough thank you very much, and my martini tastes better in a cold glass, not lickin' a warm computer screen.

Truthfully, I'm still not sure how this is different from MySpace. You have 'access' to your friends on both and you can grow your friends, group and association lists without trying too hard. What surprises me is looking at my friends-friends list. I think you can tell a lot about people buy the company they keep (hey, I think that's something that my mom said...). And does ANYONE (well other than my friend Kathleen who knows EVERYONE) really know 400+ people, I don't think so. I know that after sending a number of friend requests some people I would have sworn on a stack of bibles would have jumped at the chance to 'add' me, but they took their time. Did that mean I wasn't worth being their FB friend for all the world to see? Did that mean that as long as we met in the booth, in the back, in the corner, in the dark on alternate third Thursdays bi-monthly it was fine, but in such a public forum where let's face it you are judged, you had to think twice. Nah...it just means that people have a life and they aren't as hooked to it as I am (and you know you are too...come on, I know you're nodding in agreement with me).

Sometimes Facebook can be a curse. Unlike some of the other social networking sites choosing to have a photo or not and what photo, can be a daunting process. You don't want it to be you drunk as a skunk with bloodshot eyes, nor do you want it to be you in your Sunday best. I choose a picture that is probably one of the only pictures of me. Wearing a favorite orange sweater, hair and make-up were perfect. The look was casual yet confident. Of course I then got a comment from a male friend which was really a compliment, but made me really self-conscious, and I changed it to flowers. Hey, as a photographer I find myself changing the photo's often..see I told you I was addicted.

There are so many applications and games to learn. As a friend adds something I think, "hey that's a pretty cool group - I should join" or my favorite during the holiday the largest virtual snowball fight in the world. That was fun!! Look, I'm just scratching the surface of Facebook. I'm still learning how to keep weeds out of my virtual garden, and how to find out what's in the gift box you sent me and mostly how to actually 'search' the application feature. I'm sure with a bit more practice I'll have the hang of it. Then again maybe not. After all it's not life and death right?

So go ahead poke, send a beer, wish someone a happy birthday or send them a hug. Either way, it's just nice to be thought of by someone you call a friend. OH...if someone sends you a hug it's rude not to send them one back or at LEAST acknowledge it. Maybe there should be Facebook etiquette...hmmmm....

Thursday, January 01, 2009

365 NEW Days...Oh What To Do??

Welcome to the new 'face' of my blog. I really hope you like it. This isn't to say that I won't change pictures as time moves on, but this is a big step.

Keeping with the New Year, New Me (doesn't that sound like Oprah??) I'm going to start the year off similarly to last year. Because it was a leap-year, I read the number of books that equaled my age. No, not doing that again, and not even coming close but....I am proposing my own bucket list. What does that mean? Well, this year I'm taking on a few challenges. Finding the RIGHT job is tops on my list, so if you have any leads...send them to me. Then I have one more surgery to get through, then I'm also going to try to lose some weight and get healthy. You get the point?

Here is the list - and I will give you updates as the year progresses. I know you're thinking...there aren't 44 things here. You're 100% right. I'm taking a bit of the pressure off myself and only looking to do 25. With that said...if I get through them before 1/2 the year I'll add more. So...

1. Meet someone with my own name.
2. Own a pointless collection - or shall I say "unique" collection
3. Hang with the band - no, not that band...another one.
4. Capture the "moment" on film (or digital as it were)
5. Stay in a 5-Star Hotel
6. Get a upgrade to first class on a plane.
7. Write and article and have it published
8. Be an extra in a film or video
9. Own an original work of art.
10. Wear a Bikini again
11. Travel to Dubai, Amsterdam OR Italy. (London is a given this year!!)
12. Write 44 famous people who I admire and see who writes back.
13. Create a food/travel blog - as if doing this one, isn't enough.
14 Go to a sporting event and sit in the good seats.
15. Reconnect with at least 1 person from every school I've ever attended beginning with grammar school
16. Read the entire New Testament
17. Wear something super expensive and super sexy.
19. Publish my book
20. Ask for help when I need it.
21. Take a picture with someone famous.
22. Drink only the good stuff (you can take that any way you want, but I prefer Champagne)
23. Go to at least 5 TV shows (you know Martha, Rachel Ray, Regis/Kelly etc) in NYC
24. Dance with someone I love under the stars.
25. Visit my family more.

Ok, so there it is...Some of them are easy, some not so much. Actually I found this great website called "43 Things" and they helped me create the list that you see on the right hand side of this blog page. The small numbers you see, equals the number of people who have the 'same goal' so you can reach out to each other for support and cheers. It's actually pretty cool - you should check it out. http://www.43things.com What would you have on your own list?

[The original idea came from a book I have and found while cleaning out stuff called "101 Things to do before you die" by Richard Horne, and not the movie even though it's the same concept]
Oh Yea....HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

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