What are people thinking??

I feel like my last few posts have been about President Obama. Well, this is another one. Actually one that’s been on the burner for a while – so can we talk?

Nobel Peace Prize.
Does a young president (meaning only in office for less than 10 months) deserve it?
Hmmm, if I’m 100% honest – no. He hasn’t found a cure for our health care reform - even if it passed the senate - barely, it still has the house to contend with; he hasn’t saved the lives of those who are fighting the war (either abroad or in their own backyard). He hasn’t yet been able to calm the fraction between any of the Middle East countries or rival gangs in East L.A. But to ask has the prize diminished, you know, lost it’s shine, I don’t believe it has.

The five-member Norwegian committee voted for him just weeks after he became President - did you know that?? It seems they based their decision on Obama’s “extraordinary efforts to strengthen international diplomacy and cooperation between peoples, as well as his diplomacy and curbing nuclear weapons.” Now, was this a swipe at the former administration – perhaps? Maybe it’s just because like so many people forget, President Obama has ONLY been president for 11 months (now) but because of the lengthy campaign, it seems he’s been in office longer. Look, even he was surprised.

Is President Obama, at this point compared to Mahatma Gandhi, Pope John Paul II, even Al Gore? No but he is, a man who listens and uses a thoughtful approach. Maybe this award will do well in keeping him humble and always focused on the word “PEACE”. In the end the prize will be for us all.


When will the Military listen? Was Ft. Hood loud enough?
This past week there was a horrific rampage at Ft. Hood in Texas. Maj. Nidal Malik Hasan, a Arlington, Va born Army psychiatrist fatally shot and killed 13 (to date) and wounded about 38 others. Why? Some speculate it was because he no longer wanted to be in the army. Some will say because “he said he was a Muslim first and an American second”, even thought he was born in the US. Some might even say that even though he was a Major, the anti-Muslim sentiments were too much, even for this trained psychiatrist. It seems that a former Fort Hood colleague found out he was Muslim and ripped of his “I heart Allah” bumper sticker and did additional damage to his car. Maybe as a human, he just couldn’t deal anymore. After all, he is Human first, Muslim second.

I’m not going to go on a rant about “gun laws”, and the “right be bear arms” and how folks in Tx. will drive with rifles on their dash-board because that’s their constitutional right. Don’t get me started!! I don’t know how we citizens, can feel safe on the streets of Boston, NY, LA or Iowa when our soldiers can’t be safe on their own home base. What I’m hoping is that people take this for what it was. A very sad, sick and misguided person, who asked repeatedly to be released from his service and was ignored. Maybe they should have listened. The news reported last night that they "had him under observation"...does that mean they have all Muslims under observation or just him because he asked to be released? I hope people don’t see this and become wary of every person who is Muslim (or black, or spanish, or just...different from themselves); people don't walk around with a six-shooter or bomb strapped to their body. Not every terrorist looks like “one of those”. How do I know this…“Timothy McVeigh”.

No I don’t know what you go through as a person in the military. I’ve dated a solider who graduated West Point, I have loved a member of the Air Force. I've had uncles who have fought in the wars, and cousins who are presently fighting. I have been concerned for those I don’t know, because they are in harms way. Some people choose the military to help with their education; others because they are fighting for something they believed in. They know the risks of enemy territory – I just don’t think the soldiers of Ft. Hood thought that territory was in their own backdoor. May G-d grant their souls rest and their families peace.

Can you beat the system?

I saw something the other day in the news. It was called ‘Moneybag Medicaid “Cheaters’ Pinched. What was it about – Millionaires, the folks that have money, can buy the best of anything/everything…but they claim they are poor and apply for Medicare. Medicaid, is meant for low-income families – this means folks that earn UNDER $10,000 per year and having less than $13,800 in all assets. Maybe these folks simply ‘missed’ the few extra $.00’s that are at the end of their bank statement. Maybe they simply think it’s their right, or maybe that is how the rich stay rich.

The Manhattan prosecutors’ office handed down indictments for 19 people who are accused of beating the system. I’m not talking about folks that have some cash, I mean a dentist who pulls in a six-figure salary as well as the owner of two waterfront mansions. The person who owns the homes, actually rents them out during the summer for $65,000 each. Now I know the housing/summer share market took a hit, but still come on dude!

What they are ‘finding out’ and I use that term very loosely, is that more and more are simply lying to get a health-insurance handout. Like Bernie Madoff, they just didn’t think they would get caught. You hear “let the rich taxes fund the $849Billion that’s needed for healthcare reform”. I don’t think that’s the only way, nor fair. Nor do I think that raising taxes, or limiting care to those who are not citizens, is the right way. Is it fair that people should have to choose between a doctor or their next meal simply because they can’t afford both? It amazes me that other countries can help their poor, have universal health care, and still have nations that thrive, but we, in the best country in the world, can’t because the ‘powers that be’ can’t play nice in the sand box.

You know everyone wants to come to America, but what are they bring with them? Tons of people say “if you can’t make it in NY you can’t make it anywhere”, well there is a lot more folks NOT making it, or hadn’t they noticed? There are those who want to be educated here, get financial aid and then go back to their own country without so much as a backwards glance to the country that made them what they are. I say if you want to close the boarders (of course people only think of Mexicans that cross the borders in the dark of night, or people from dictator countries that risk life/limb on rickety boats) then close them to all. That means no one coming from the Ukraine, Russia, China, Germany, or any other country. That means watching those visas and monitoring them. What you don’t have the manpower for that – well, hire people (that will stimulate the economy even if in just this sector). If you’re not here and can’t bring benefit to the US of A, then you are no longer welcome. When your country goes to war, don’t look to us to save you, because we obviously can’t save ourselves.

What do I believe? I believe that the US is a great place. We are a country that is welcoming to all who want to do right by her. I have friends from all cultures, countries and economic abilities. I think we have and continue to stick our nose in others affairs and don’t necessarily know how to say “No”. I think this war has gone on too long; it’s lost its focus (to find Osama Ben Laden) and now can’t get out. I think that this country should take a breath and take care of HOME first. What a difference that would make.

Race, Relations, and things that make me go Grrrrrrrrrr

I've been a bit busy - trying to do things that are necessary in my life. I'm hoping that at least some of them, if not all, will be fruitful and bring into my life what I wish. What those things are - I'll blog about in the future.

Today I've finally had a few moments to write some thoughts on what has had me scratching my head, made me angry, and just throwing up my hands.

President Obama, Sgt. Crowley, Prof. Louis Gates.
The topic of race was too quiet...like the elephant in the room. Sadly, it's come out like a lion roaring and I don't know if it has divided the nation anymore than it has, when we should be more focused on health care, getting jobs and the return of the economy.

However, for some people, it's apparently getting increasingly hard to effectively conceal their racism, especially when it comes to dealing with the media. In a story two weeks ago emerged amongst the unavoidable Gates/Crowley fiasco, Cambridge police officer Justin Barrett has somehow managed to put himself in some deep... excrement. (this just says that while Sgt. Crowley may not be a 'racist' there are people in the Cambridge Police dept., the same one that he belongs to that are!)

He was put on paid administrative leave after he mass-mailed a racist, bigoted email to the Boston Globe and members of his National Guard unit, in which he continuously referred to professor Henry Louis Gates Jr as a "jungle monkey." Actually here are some of Barrett's original statement's:

"If I was the officer he verbally assaulted like a banana-eating jungle-monkey, I would have sprayed him in the face with OC deserving of his belligerent non-compliance." He went on further to say "I am not a racist but I am prejudice towards people who are stupid and pretend to stand up and preach for something they say is freedom but it is merely attention because you do not get enough of it in your little fear-dwelling circle of on-the-bandwagon followers."

What saddens me is that the people who demonstrate this type of behavior are more remorseful for getting caught and how they "worded" their statements more so than recognizing the social implications of their actions. In other words 'Open mouth, insert your entire leg!' This is someone who had HE been the one to respond that day, we may have had a VERY different outcome.

Now before you say I'm not responding to Pres. Obamas comments, I can only say that he is a man who may/or not have been a victim of racism himself, I don't know. Should he have used the words " acted stupidly", I don't know. In the end, there are no words that would have been good enough. Any words would have been taken out of context.

For people to presume that just because the U.S. has a black president in the white house is going to make things better; to think racism disappeared the moment he won is beyond sadly mistaken. How do you fix it? I'm not sure. I think that we should go back to our childhood when we all played with each other - with total disregard to skin color. Racism is taught; it's a learned behavior. I know people who have grown up with racist parents (this included color, religion and everything else) and they choose, to allow people into their lives based on who they are "not the color of their skin". Maybe that's too simplistic - maybe I want to believe that most people are good, sadly I know they are not.


Do I think the "Beer at the Rose garden" was as 'sweet' as it smelled, absolutely not. I believe that it was a photo-op. Let's face it...being called to the Oval office is akin to being called to the principals office.

Relations with other countries and each other.
I know Lisa Ling. She is an amazing woman, journalist and someone whose intellect I admire. I am beyond thrilled that her sister Laura Ling and editor Euna Lee are freed from captivity. What I want to know and may never know is why and how they were captured. Let me say upfront, I am not criticizing them, this was not their fault, they were 'just on the job'. I have been on the border of two countries and immediately knew where the country line was drawn...there were armed guards that told me.

I'm wondering if the area they were filming, contained no signs of warning, or police and if not...if they were just steps into N.Korea, then how and where did the military come from to arrest them? It just seems to me that they were (intentionally or not) further into N.Korea than we honestly know. Does this mean they should have been put in jail and sentenced to 12yrs of hard time - absolutely not. There are other journalists, political prisoners and perhaps many others that we will never know because of their 'non-status', who are arrested and in prisons with no chance of getting out.

Ah...former President Clinton to the rescue. I am a fan - yes I said it. I voted for him, worked on his campaign as a volunteer and think he did a good job. I am sad that I don't remember any interaction with Pres. Clinton and Kim Jong-il - the cynic in me wants to say that Kim Jong wanted Pres. Clinton to 'eat a bit of crow' for something in the past, but I have no evidence to back that up. What I do appreciate is that he passed no official messages and made no promises during his mission. N. Korea is still a country that needs to re-think it's policies.

To wrap this up, I hope that we can now get back to what's important: the economy, jobs, health care. For those critics of Pres Obama, look the man has only been in office for 8 months! If he hasn't made a real change by the end of the year, the I just might join you on the "Where is the Change?" bandwagon.

WHAT a week

This week marks the un-official beginning of summer. Memorial day, bar-b-que, beaches, Fleet Week (here in NY – SOOOO many military personal all looking spiffy in their dress uniforms as they walk around NY), the nomination of Judge Sonia Sotomayor for the newest and only Hispanic ever nominated to the US Supreme Court a memorial day tribute and of course my personal favorite Dancing under the stars at Lincoln Center.

Ok so a bit at a time.
No Bar-b-que or beach for me…yet this year. The water is too cold still and I don’t have my dad’s hot dogs (truly the best on the planet) so I’ll pass until later on in the season.

I love Memorial Day and Fleet week. Not because of all the really cute guys that are in town, but because of what it stands for. I have several members of my family (including my own brother who was in the service) who have served and died for this country. I have loved a man from West Point (he went on to serve in both Iraq 1 and 2) and got to know first hand how seriously our young men (and women) take their military training – especially when they are training to become an officer (and of course a gentleman). This is in no way not to honor the amazing women that serve. You, are truly more woman than I, even though I almost went to the Air Force Academy. Wonder how my life would have changed if I did?

I also want to give a personal shout out to a young woman who is creating her own change. My adopted niece Melissa. Let me tell you about her and why she totally rocks!

Melissa is the daughter of a friend of mine, and she is what I think most would call a an old-soul. She sees things from a unique perspective and feels deeply. Very Deeply!! So much so that sometimes it’s hard to remember that she is not quite a teenager yet.

This amazing young lady was chosen this past week to read her speech about Memorial day in her hometown of Hillsdale, NJ. Why is this a big deal, because she beat out a bunch of other kids, she walked with their town mayor in the parade and well frankly…because I think it’s a big deal. You see Melissa and I have a very special connection.

She is a writer and photographer like me, she thinks too much (like me), she has a heart that is compassionate and she is brave. While not everything is a rose for my little friend, she has a capacity to give herself a time-out, think it out, and then come to a rational conclusion. Why tell you all that, because I think her paper about Memorial Day is telling of her depth.

In part she says the following:
“What does it mean to be unselfish? Not the textbook definition but the real meaning. The real meaning of unselfish is the men and women fighting and dying for their country everyday overseas. Memorial Day only comes once a year and on that one day everyone should think about all the men and women overseas. Many people just think of Memorial Day as a three-day weekend to escape from work but it is so much more than that it all started on May 5, 1868 when it was officially named a holiday that was when people finally took the time on that one day to remember the veterans and the people in the armed services now.

Memorial is one of the greatest holidays to celebrate because it is not a day to mourn or to be sad it is a time to celebrate the men and women who brought us to our freedom today.”

How smart is she? Personally I think Melissa will grow up to do something amazing. Maybe she will be like a Supreme Court Justice. Maybe she’ll be a world-class photographer, or teacher, or stay-at-home mom. I don’t know, but I do know that I’m grateful that she is a person of character, and who loves (and sometimes hurts) openly. I am proud that she understands that there is more to this holiday than just a day off. I, like her parents and sister Ally am very proud of her. This is among many reasons we need to nurture our young women and add another woman on the bench…the Supreme Court bench that is.

I am a believer that this is a good country that may have gone a bit off tilt in the past few years. This is not to say as I’ve said before, that Pres. Obama will create a miracle – there is just too much to clean up. I’m just hopeful that the rest of the world will see our new Commander and Chief as someone who is willing to listen and not dictate what other countries SHOULD do. Pres Obama seems to be a man that is looking for change, and is creating change to reflect the people of this country. I believe that one day, he just might put an openly gay person in a position of importance. Until that moment, he has taken a HUGE first step in creating a more “like me world” by nominating Judge Sonya Sotomayor.

Judge Sotomayor gets my vote immediately not because she is a woman (I’m not THAT sexist), but because she is a Yankee Fan. Secondly, being a former person in the law, I started reading some of her opinions when her name first started floating around. While I may not agree with them all, I do find that she is consistent, fair, and a scholar of the law to a depth that I am not. Hence why she is still a lawyer and I am not.

I believe that should she be confirmed, we will see some interesting fireworks on the court that we have never seen before. I also predict that this will NOT be the only appointment that Pres. Obama will make. There is at least 1 other judge that may be looking to retire. Mark this page when it happens.

Finally as for dancing…I want to dance. Not because I’m Dancing with the Stars worthy, not because I dance with my favorite guy when ever I can (yup that’s you dad!!), but because this is one of the things I have on my list to do. So if you are in NY, Lincoln center has dancing every night during the month of June. You can go take a class (yea, just meet someone and shake your tail feather for a small fee) and then spend the night dancing. Or…you can just stand on the outside of their outdoors space and dance anyway. It’s always so beautiful to watch couple that know (and those who don’t but love being close anyway) how to dance. Shouldn’t we all dance at least once with someone under the stars at least once in our lives?? This year, I will.

Is being an African American man in politics the new “IT factor”, or is electing Michael Steele to the GOP a way to “ block, saying ‘NOT’” safely.

Ok, so if this offends anyone I'm sorry in advance. If you have a different opinion and/or thoughts about this, please let me know. I'm willing to listen and learn.

I must admit that there are times I walk past CNN on TV, catch a glimpse of President Obama and pause. It takes me a second to remember yes, we have an African-American man who is President of the United States. I can’t be the only one, who has experienced this. I’m sure as we hear more of the ‘new voice’ in the administration, the more ‘common’ shall we say it will become.

President Obama has begun forward movement of his agenda and I believe that the stimulus package was a great beginning. Even though the Dow did dip to just above 8,000 the day after this passed, I’m hopeful that this will help stimulate the economy. Yes there have been some other early challenges, but he doesn’t seem to be the kind of man who will be easily daunted.

There is a part of me that has become cynical. At one time I believed that our government was made up of “we’re-thinking-of-what’s-

best-for-the-people-who-put-us-in office” kind of people. Then, this year’s election. I questioned why Sen. McCain who had months to announce a running mate, waited until AFTER then Sen. Obama picked his. More so, I wondered why Palin?

I remember driving to visit my family when a friend emailed me “McCain picks Palin for VP”. I responded like so many others “Who?” While I don’t think she was the best woman/person that the GOP had to offer, I do understand the strategy behind it and it was brilliant. ‘Let’s get the 18 million people who voted for Hillary on our side.’ You see how well it worked for them right? This is what makes me wonder if the GOP has done it again. Do they think that by picking an African American to head a party, which is clearly in trouble, will create new interest? What the GOP has done again, is leaping without sincere thought or a clear direction. Let me just be blunt…African American people are not going to become Republicans or follow this new drummer just because he is African American.

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Michael Steele, the first African-American chairman of the Republican National Committee makes me think that now, being an African American male is H-O-T! Of course after 6 rounds of voting, this ‘win’ didn’t come easily. He finally beat out Katon Dawson, the chairman of the South Carolina party, who had been criticized for belonging to a whites-only country club, a membership he resigned before this election began. Stupid me, I didn’t think whites-only country clubs still existed.

Michael Steele, at the Republican National Convention coined the "Drill Baby Drill" chant that was taken up by McCain and Palin to push for more offshore drilling. Most recently, he is also the man who asked GOP lawmakers to close ranks and cast 177 “no” votes when the stimulus bill was before the House. The bill however passed.

Mr. Steels suggests that he wants to lay a new foundation; develop new relationships; make progress with small donors (the common man) as well as the ‘fat’ cats; he seeks to increase the number of minorities to the Republican party who may have shun it in the past and reclaim the Northeast. God Help us…sorry, that was my out-side voice. So far the smartest and most honest thing I’ve heard him say is he realizes that this won’t turnaround overnight.

It seems to me – the cynic – that the GOP is trying HARD to do a few things and yet maybe trying too hard.
First, they are trying to separate themselves from the Bush administration quickly and by all means necessary.

Secondly, the GOP wants people to know they are inclusive and will welcome everyone. With Steele in a position of power, it sends a message that this party has been ‘misidentified as one that doesn’t care, insensitive and unconcerned about minorities or doesn’t want to knock down color barriers – these labels couldn’t be further from the truth. After all they did appoint him an African-American.

Third, maybe they are looking past all the Sarah Palin hype/fallout and looking for a potential African-American candidate of their own in 2012…hmmm. After all, President Obama already did the hard part.

Finally, selecting an African-American chairman, no matter what you think of it, is redefining the party’s image. Only time will tell what this new image is. For now, being African-American it HOT!!

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Still Michael Steele frightens me. Steele has already said that he “would move aggressively to take on the Democrats.” Steele suggested that he was looking forward to ‘engaging Mr. Obama in the months ahead; that it would be ‘an honor to spar with him’. (Technically, isn’t he supposed to address him as President Obama?) Gee, that doesn’t sound like someone who is willing to work across the isle, show respect, or willing to listen to different views. It sounds like the same ‘ol my way or the highway’ Republican Party to me.

To his defense, I will say that my research as it were, shows that Mr. Steele did verbally attack former President Bush on the handling of the war and said his response to Katrina was a “monumental failure.” He was at the losing end of that fallout. How the tides and attitudes are changing for the party.

Can we just say it already; many feel Mr. Steele is a ‘token’. He will never be Colin Powell and even Colin Powell; a well-respected, African-American FORMER Republican changed, political parties when he had enough. Even if you don’t agree with Steele, is it fair to say that he is a token because he is an African-American Republican. Likewise is it fair to say that only Obama can be the messenger of change – the visionary? I don’t think so. See I am trying to be fair.

Although there are many in the Republican Party in general, Mr. Steele will still find his self-surrounded by racist, radicals, elitist, and extremist. These type of people don’t think that African-American, or any other minority have a place in the White House and I’m sure a dew are having a tough time dealing with the his appointment. Let us remember Rush Limbaugh’s comments last week about President Obama. What does Mr. Steele have to say about this, and/or does he agree with him?

How will he deal with his staunch, right wing GOP supporters like O'Reilly, Limbaugh and Hannity? When they open their mouths to bad-mouth minorities and homosexuals, what will Mr. Steele say or do then? Will he tow the party line, or show a ‘kinder and gentler GOP’? Would you believe there are some who still say that the only reason – and this makes me laugh – Obama won is because the minority population came out in droves. While this may have been the biggest voter turnout since – well forever, folks didn’t elect President Obama because of what he looks like, I know I didn’t. I didn’t care that he was bi-racial, or went to Harvard, or has a seemingly lovely family. I voted for him because he is truly unlike anyone else who was running this year. He offered the country a new vision, a positive change and the hope for a brighter future.

What it seems to me, and call me crazy, the GOP needs to counter (the Obama factor) by putting Mr. Steele in a position to ‘take on the president’ so that those that might not agree, don’t seem racist. Mr. Steele, like Supreme Court Justice Clarence Thomas, is a ‘pull yourself up by your boots strap kind of guy’. Hey, I also believe you have to work hard and those that are constantly looking for a hand out, need to get a grip. However, in this economy what if you don’t have boots, or shoes or socks to pull up? Then what?? If you have 2 men of the same ‘group’ going at each other, doesn’t’ that cancel out any potential racial factor? Hey, I'm just asking so don’t kill me!

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There have been so many changes in the last month I can barely keep up. What I hope for (among many things) is that this country can get back on the right track. That means reminding our political officials to work together for the good of the people that elected them in the first place. Yes, that means the little people and even those among us that have a few billion to rub together. We need to focus on the economy, get the jobs that are so desperately needed and don't forget the environment.

I want to be of the generation that rejoices in the fact that this 2009 administration, Senate and House are working to abolish racism by putting in key positions people of all backgrounds, all ethnicities, all sexual orientations. That they are looking for success, not setting you up for failure. If that means being Black is the new ‘Black’, then rock on!

In the end whether Mr. Steele or President Obama is the ‘right person’ only time will dictate. In the meantime another African American is creating hope, cracking a ceiling, breaking down the door and walking into a new challenge coming this far by faith. For these two African-American men, it must be good to be them at this moment in history.

Signed, Sealed, Delivered He’s OUR President.

I feel as if tonight there are so many songs that reflect what I’m feeling but Alicia Keys sang it best, “No one, no one, can get in the way of what I’m feeling…”

I’ve finally had a few moments to sit and reflect on what has happened today. I admit I have been moved by this moment in history. I’ve also been deeply touched by the stories of people who lived through the civil rights marches and moved by their reaction, as they watched Barack take the pledge of office. The smartest little people I met today inspire me. I truly believe if you want insight and the truth, ask someone under nine years old. They’re not jaded yet.

As I do sit here, tired from my running around today I am going to say once again how proud I am of Barack and of this country. I pray that they allow him a moment, but just a moment for there is work to be done, and miles to go before his next good nights sleep.

The critics have already said that Supreme Court Chief Justice John Roberts, dropped the ball when he misspoke the order of the Oath of Office. Some blame it on Barack. One woman said “He should have memorized it”. I think the pause he took was a reflection that he DID know what to say and gave Justice Roberts a moment to re-group. Look, I can only imagine walking through those doors to a sea of millions, knowing that every step you take, every decision you now make, truly rests on your shoulders and you know your critics will be watching you. Likewise I can imagine what it’s like to administer this oath to the President. It was excitement, and you know what he’s human so maybe a bit scared as well. Look, if this is the worse flub of during his presidency, we’ll be fine.

At the Neighborhood ball as they danced, someone said, "It's like they actually like each other". I know and wasn’t looking at two people obviously in love, wonderful. I know this type of love exists because of my parents and of the parents of many of my friends. Hopefully this creates a new stereotype.

My final thoughts are quite simple. This is more than a moment in history. This is more than the first black President. This is more than the history of the past (even though it helped shape this moment); this is the making of the Future.

The Economy, Healthcare, The War in Iraq, Gay Rights and the list goes on. These are the things President Obama will be judged on, not a flub of an oath, or how close he held his wife on the dance floor. These are the things that secure his win, not his ability to rock to Stevie Wonder, how cute the girls are (even though they really are) or his mother-in-law moving in with them.

So as I fold myself into bed finally, the sun is just beginning to rise in the distance. No matter I still have a smile on my face. I am so grateful to my ancestors and my parents for their struggles and the strength they gave me. I look forward and will continue to work hard for those that will come after me. It is my hope to make their world a little but better than mine. You see, Barack isn’t the only one with work to do.

Yes today was historic, but this is not the end. This is the dawn of a new day. We all have miles to go before we can sleep, but until then I wish you peace.

Today Kings Dream – Tomorrow Obamas

On November 4, 2008, millions of able American voters, elected Barack Hussein Obama based on the content of his character and his proposed policies, and not the color of his skin. Tomorrow, this segment of Dr. Kings’ 46 year old dream, will become a reality.

Only a simple minded person, or one who thought that because of THIS election of a Black man to the nations highest office, would eradicate racism in this country. Nope, no such luck. What it does however signify is that maybe this country that I love, my home is moving in the right direction. The election of this man (and hey, let’s not forget that there was a woman running on the Republican ticket for Vice President – no matter what you thought of her, that is history as well) has created proof for a new generation who weren’t alive during the King days. Hopefully it will aspire more of them to take the cause of community service, and maybe one day they too can be president, should that be their dream. It’s not an easy road but I believe the rewards for a job well done are immeasurable.

As a people we have been shaken by war, the economic crisis and continued terror threats. I don’t think we have ever been more stirred, than by the passion for change, the desire to created a better country or the throngs of people that have converged on the Nations Capital in the last several days. Those that are lucky enough to be close enough to touch, or those so far away they can only be touched by the spirit of the day.

The last several days have been palatable.

Dr. King taught us about sacrifice, rising up during difficult times, working together to achieve our goals. Given all that has happened especially in the last several years, we need this spirit more than ever. I wonder what he would have thought about this day had he lived?

As we celebrate the life and mission of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. and prepare for tomorrows inauguration, let us continue to build a new path of inclusion, bright futures and the ability to allow dreams to come true.

There was an old Negro Spiritual that was later adapted for Freedom Riders of the 60’s. I think the lyrics were poignant then and now.

Ain’t gonna let nobody turn me ‘roun’
Turn me ‘roun’
Ain’t gonna let nobody turn me ‘roun’
I’m gonna wait until my change comes

Don’t let nobody turn you ‘roun’
Turn you ‘roun’
Don’t let nobody turn you ‘roun’
Wait until your change comes

I say I’m gonna hold out
Hold out, hold out
I say that I’m gonna hold out
Until my change comes

I promised the lord that I would hold out
Hold out
I promised the Lord that I would hold out
Wait until my change comes.



TOMORROW…Change Comes.

Congratulations Mr. President, We are ready for Change!!!

Dear Mr. President,

Like so many Americans and dare I say people around the world, I want to congratulate you. Have you had a moment to truly absorb what it is you have accomplished? I hope that you have a photographer there to capture every moment, because some important moments may be a blur. You have worked hard and you deserve this victory. Enjoy it!



I know that you will work hard to restore America to its greatness. I also know and have no expectations that you are the savior and that change will come immediately. It took a while to get in this situation, and it will take a while to get us out. There are a lot of people who have faith in you and are willing to work with you to make change happen. Surround your self with people you not only trust, but who will offer sound advice. It has been a long and hard road and a fight well won. Now, reach across the isle and work with the Republican party because it's time to work TOGETHER!!


I wish you all the best and a long successful presidency. I wish for Michelle, Malia and Sasha happiness as they begin this adventure with you. They truly deserve the puppy. Take time to be with your family to enjoy this win as well as morn the loss of your grandmother. While your grandmother wasn't physically here to see you win, I do believe that she is your angel and was with you this night. I know she as well as your mother is PROUD.

There is much to do and many miles to go, but I think you deserve a good nights sleep. Rest well Mr. President because in 76 days, the real work begins.

16 days and you're on...

There is electricity in the air, and the change of seasons has nothing to do with it. This country is on eggshells knowing that in about 16 days, we will decide who is leading this country for the next four years. It will be, one of two men who has over the last year, promised to do everything short of walking on water to get your vote. That person will be the next President of the United States of America. What we, rather what I want to know is not what have you done in the past, I want to know what can you realistically do in your first 100 days in office? The key word is ‘realistically.’ No more promises because let's face, politicians don't have a strong record for keeping them. What can you do to help restore this country to one that is not only admired, but also respected by others worldwide?

I could give you my 42cents worth (the price of U.S. postage) but I won’t. I will say please, please all Americans, use this time to do something important. Do your own research. Have a conversation with someone whose opinion you respect. Speak with someone that is on the “same page” as you are. Have a conversation with someone who may have an opposing political view. Get the ‘facts’ not the fables. Forget "reality t.v." THIS, the future of the US is true reality. Remember Declare Your Vote you still have time. YOUR VOTE does count. Your VOICE is important and MUST be heard. Out of the country but a US citizen….No excuse!! In the Military - absolutely no excuse. Above are links for absentee forms. Don’t let not being here, be a reason that you just ‘accept’ whatever the final outcome is. Someone a very long time ago fought for, died for, burned a bra or two, left a country that oppressed him or her, sat in the front of instead of the back of a bus, marched for your right to make this decision. Don’t let anyone tell you, you don’t count. Remember you could be the deciding vote…probably not, but you get the point.

November 4th – Snow, Rain or Shine – VOTE!!!

My name is Lisa and through my sometimes rose-colored view,
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McCAIN trying to steal some thunder???

It's smart to make the announcement the day AFTER Obama's speech. McCain's camp knows that Obama is a good orator and so the only way to take the punch out of (or try to) his speech is to announce the first woman on the GOP ticket. (She is not the first woman to be nominated as a V.P., Geraldine Ferraro was nominated to the Democratic Party by Walter Mondale in 1984. They loss that year to Ronald Regan and George H.W. Bush.)

Biography

Full Name: Sarah Heath Palin
Party: Republican
Political Office: Governor of Alaska, elected 2006; mayor of Wasilla, Alaska, 1996-2002; Wasilla City Council, 1992-1996
Business/Professional Experience: Television sports reporter, 1987-1989; Co-owner of a commercial fishing operation, 1988-2007; owner, sport vehicle rental business, 1994-1997; chairwoman, Alaska Oil and Gas Conservation Commission, 2003-2004
Date of Birth: February 11, 1964
Place of Birth: Sandpoint, Idaho
Education: B.S., University of Idaho, 1987
Spouse: married Todd Palin, 1988
Children: Sons Track, born 1989, and Trig Paxson Van, born 2008; daughters Piper, born 1990; Bristol, born 1994 and Willow, born 2001
Religion: Protestant (nondenominational)
Home: Juneau, Alaska

In a state dominated by the same party – and in many cases the same people – virtually since its inception, Sarah Palin is at the vanguard of a new generation of Alaska Republicans with a reformist bent. The self-described "hockey mom" ousted the incumbent governor in the 2006 primary, and she is both the youngest person and the first woman to serve in the post in Alaska. Senator John McCain, the presumptive presidential nominee of the Republican Party, drafted her as his running mate on Aug. 29, 2008.

OBAMA You Made Martin Luther King Jr. Proud!!!

A part of me wants to say that I am very pleased (not that Obama was looking for my endorsement...or is he??) at the speech Mr. Obama gave. There is another part of me that wants to hear more.

Those that know me, know that I MUST HAVE details. While I can and often do "think out of the box", I want to know EXACTLY HOW the next President of the country I live in is going to accomplish all that he says he is going to.

This is what I think both candidates need to remember... It's not what I SAY, I want you to do, it's WHAT YOU SA,Y you will do. This is where we need to make the next President accountable. So Obama or McCain, you both better be ready to put your money where your words are.

Of course I will be watching (and encourage everyone to) the Republican Convention next week. I want to see what McCain is going to say he will do. I want to be completely informed and then make my decision.

Remember...just because you are X party doesn't mean you can't vote for another.

JUST VOTE!!!

BARACK OBAMA TIME....

When you have only 1 true opportunity to make a first impression....you take it!
This is your time Barack....Make it count!

Former President Bill Clinton still has it!!

I want to say that the reason this is a bit late is because I was at a very important event last night. My dear friend Barry celebrated his 60th birthday. What a wonderful celebration with friends and family. Des you did a great job and I thank you both for allowing me to be a part of it.

On to last night’s convention. I tivo’d it so it’s taken me a while to watch it. This will be very brief now, but I will (well may) fill in some thoughts later on.

I am very proud of Hillary. She made a gracious exit from the hard-fought presidential primary with a shortened, ceremonial roll call. When she called for an amendment it made him the official nominee of the Democratic Party. "With eyes fixed on the future and the spirit of unity, with the goal of victory, with faith in our party and our country, let's declare together in one voice right here, right now, that Barack Obama is our candidate and he will be our president." I can only imagine the mixed feelings (hey, she is human so give her a break!!), yet the determination to do what is best for the party she was going through. She also knew that every eye, and camera would be focused on her. She was sincere, and her commitment was evident. Let me say again, I am very proud of you Hillary.

Let it be said that Mr. Barack Obama is now the first African-American to get the nomination by a major party. His speech will be in about one-hour from now, so I’m also going to move on a be equally brief about former President Clinton.

I love Bill Clinton and I think that by the seven minute round of applause, so did everyone in the convention hall. If you didn’t hear his speech, please listen to it. We actually both attended the same school at Oxford, so we have a very special tie. His speech was on point and had the crowd on it’s feet almost the entire time. He promised like Hillary to do all he could to make sure that Barack was nominated. I actually believe that he will do that. Barack should remember that he IS one of the most well respected and liked former presidents still alive. There are things to learn from him (only the good things), so he should be open to learning from Bill Clinton’s experiences.

Joe Biden’s son didn’t leave a dry eye in the house and he gave a wonderful introduction to his father. How proud he must be of him.

Joe Biden was amazing. This was my first time hearing him speak and I thought he gave a passionate and very personal speech. Like the Republicans will do next week, there were some ‘suggestions’ by Joe that the way of the other party is not the way to go. Did he as a person convince me – yes to a certain degree. There is still a lot to learn about Joe, and Barack and we will in the following weeks. I can’t believe it’s only 68 days until the actual election. In 68 days, no matter what this election will be seen as historic.

What I want anyone who is reading this blog to do is to re-read and listen to the speeches of both tickets and hold who ever wins accountable. After all, you are voting for someone based on what they said they will do. Isn’t it time we made our government accountable?

In just a bit, Barack Obama will speak, accept the nomination of the Democratic Party. He is also speaking on the 45th anniversary of the “I have a Dream” speech. Like the day Hillary conceded 06/07/08, this is a special night for Barack.

Ok…Former VP Al Gore is just about to speak so I’m signing off until later.
Thanks to everyone who has taken time to read this – tell me what you think?

No Way, No How, No McCain...Hillary ROCKS the Convention

A WOMAN ON A MISSION

“She didn't become an astronaut, but she did reach for the stars, something she always will continue to do." This was my favorite line from the video presentation narrated by Chelsea Clinton. A colorful mix of photos, video clips of ‘Hil’ in action and remarks from some of her close friends “you really, really don’t want her to sing’ were warm, endearing and very personal. Unlike Michelle’s brother, who had a formal announcement slot time, Chelsea simply introduced her as "my hero and my mother". One can’t say anything bad about Chelsea. She is an accomplished hedge fund manager; has never been seen throwing a tantrum or being a brat; will say “Hi” if you pass her on the street (she did that once when I was in city); and is one of the best things (Bill and Hillary will agree) that has come out of their marriage. We share an Oxford education, love of our mothers and I’m hoping to see her at our next Oxford Alumni get together…she was a little busy the last 19 months. You’re forgiven Chelsea.

On to the main topic…

With that a deafening roar erupted from more than 5,000 their "Hillary" placards waving franticly, when the former first lady and Senator from my state, New York took the stage. When Hillary she walked onto the stage she looked radiant. There was a glow and to me at least, a look of peace on her face that I had not seen in a long time. It could also be that she wore one of my favorite colors that warmed her skin and put the extra twinkle in her eyes. In fact, during her speech she gave a tribute to "my sisterhood of the traveling pantsuits", she referred her collection of matching pants, jackets and tops. No matter what she wears, she look GREAT last night.

So you can read the tons of reviews on Senator Clinton’s speech. The reviews are definitely mixed but are mostly positive. Keep in mind I’m not a political writer – hey I’m just trying to be a decent writer period, but I did take some notes last night and am proud to say a lot of my points appeared in the NYT this morning, so here we go…

"No way. No how. No McCain.”
“Barack Obama is my candidate. And he must be our president.”
“The time is now to unite as a single party with a single purpose.”
“We don’t need four more years of the last eight years.”
“That is our duty, to build that bright future, to teach our children that in America there is no chasm too deep, no barrier too great, ­ no ceiling too high, ­ for all who work hard, who keep going, have faith in God, in our country, and in each other. That’s our mission, Democrats. Let’s elect Barack Obama.”

I believe her, and it seemed 95% of people I've spoken to today feel the same. I think her message was clear. She is a true T-E-A-M player, and even if she spoke of what she did (“I”) and what she passionately believes, she has acknowledged a well run race and she is on the Obama team. She thanked her supporters, was gracious to the Obama/Biden ticket and then she asked her supporters to look beyond ‘team Hillary” and put all of their support – all 18,000,000 of them behind Obama.

Some would call it a ‘pre-2012’ speech…others say that because her presence was so commanding that Barack Obama needs to complete the unity circle and close the deal. Tonight I am attending a party for a friend but have the Tivo ready to catch former President Bill Clinton's comments. I'm sure once again the convention will be on it's feet. What Barack needs is to be as gracious to Hillary as she was to both he and Michelle. Maybe Hillary’s speech has created a fire that we will once again see in the Democratic Party. Remember it was four short years ago, when Barack was the Keynote at the last Democratic Convention. We all wondered “Who is this man?” Now we know.

SIDE BAR: I've been trying to get the transcript from the Gov of Montana Brian Schweltzer - he was on FIRE!!!

When you think about it, Hillary’s supporters have already said “she was my choice, I believe in her, and she TOLD me to vote for Obama so I’m going to do what she asks.” Barack are you listening?? This is yours to win. The support is there, last night you were given the entire olive bush (no pun intended) Thursday is your night. Thursday some 40+years after Rev. Martin Luther King’s Dream speech will be your time.

Barack Obama Time.

The ‘Dream’ speech has been referred to since I was a child. The dream when things seem impossible. The speech played from every mountain, by every person, who has ever faced adversity.


Thursday is the night – you only get one change to make this lasting impression.

My only advice, don’t blow it.

Can we seperate Church & State or are these truly the ties that bind?

A few weeks ago, Pope Benedict XVI was in town, and of course the city was all a buzz. Frankly, I am still I morning over Pope John Paul II. He was and still is my Pope. He is the one that has has a great impact in my life. I remember being in grammar school when JP came to N.Y. WOW!!! This was like getting a snow day off from school (back then we had ‘real snow’, not the few flakes we have today). All the nuns were all a twitter (I equate it to going to the prom - that kind of excitement), as the Pope announced he was having a youth rally at Madison Square Garden. I think having it there – filled to capacity with young people – screaming his name, gave him ‘ROCK STAR’ appeal. He was just cool. I will always remember that day, and remember him.

I was like so many deeply sadden as I watched his health fail him. This once exuberant man was now slouching over, and his speech was slurring. I get the feeling that even though the body was failing, there was the strength and passion of a young man who had given his life to God so many years ago. I loved him (as much as one could love the Pope) and what he stood for. I admired his ability to meet with people of every race, every station in life because he was passionate about people. He wanted to understand your views and even if he disagreed, he showed respect at all times. His actions spoke loudly.

When he died, I watched his funeral and yes smiled at his red shoes. Prada slip-on I believe. For a modest man, those ruby red slippers like Dorothy reminded me that there was ‘no place like home’ and that his home was in heaven.

Pope Benedict now wears the papal red shoes, but has made it clear that he “was not JPII, but his own man”.
When the Pope held church services at St. Patrick's Cathedral, the twice-divorced Giuliani, accompanied by his third wife, Judith, received Communion from a priest standing near the Pope. Giuliani should not have received Holy Communion because according to catholic law, the former presidential candidate and mayor supports abortion rights and remarried without getting an annulment from the church.

Cardinal Edward Egan said he had "an understanding" with the failed Republican presidential hopeful "that he was not to receive the Eucharist because of his well-known support of abortion." The Cardinal went further and said "I deeply regret that Mr. Giuliani received the Eucharist during the papal visit here in New York, and I will be seeking a meeting with him to insist that he abide by our understanding." What understanding??

I know this may not seem like a big thing, but it’s the little things, that cause people to change churches or change political parties. If this is the case of “they are just human and may not speak for the whole” then dare I say why can’t we separate the speeches of Rev. Jeremiah A. Wright Jr. and presidential candidate Barack Obama. (This is not an endorsement of Barack Obama or Rev. Wright).

I don't have the answer, and I'm grateful I'm not being asked to provide one.

Sean Bell+50 Bullets+The Law=Aquital & Question of Fairness

Sean Bell was an engaged 23 years old father of two, participating in a male pre-wedding ritual. He was out with the guys’ the eve of his wedding at his bachelor party. What he and two of his friends Trent Benefield, and Joseph Guzman didn't know, is that the place they choose to celebrate his last night as a 'free and single man', would be his last.

Three unarmed men were under a hail of 50 bullets and their only crime that night was being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Sean Bell would be killed that night. For the last 8 weeks NYC has been holding their collective breath, waiting for the verdict. On Friday April 25th, at the conclusion, some of the city are once again divided. No matter whose side you are on, at this point, no one is truly the winner.

While the topic of race wasn’t the focal point, it did rear it’s ugly head and divide New York City yet again. I believe this time the focus was more on the protection of the ‘boys in blue’ vs the past deeds of the targeted victims and hey, let’s not forget…there were 50 bullets. Excessive…ya think??

The police officers at the center of the shooting were acquitted but they are not off the hook yet. There will be a civil suit filed by Nicole (Sean Bell’s finance) and his parents. Will they win I’m not sure. Given the New Yorks history of horrific past misdeeds, they may.

Beginning in 1994 with Anthony Baez, 1999 Amadou Diallo, and in 2004 Timothy Stansbury, just these three cases, NYC has paid over 8 million to the families of these three men to settle wrongful death law suits. Nine million dollars from the city and police union, for the sexual brutalization of Abner Louima.

Why are these cases so important? They became high profile because of the very natures of these deaths and attacks. These were all unarmed men, they were in the wrong place at the wrong time, they were minorities, and the police officers were white. One argument I heard was this case is different because the police officers charged were themselves minorities ( Det Cooper – African-American; Det. Isnora – Hispanic; Det. Oliver – while white, is Lebanese by nationality). I still say “So What??” Sean is still dead, and his children will still grow up without a father.

The 'Not Guilty' verdict by the honorable Supreme Court Justice Arthur Cooperman is being questioned. Not because of his interpretation of the law (which most agree with) but with the way he cited 'inconsistent statements, courtroom demeanor and the police rap sheets and Benefields testimony in particular "eviscerated the credibility of those prosecution witnesses". In other words he just didn't believe the testimony of Bells' friends.

Witnesses in the court suggest, even cops who took the stand, contradicted each other as to whether Isnora identified himself as cop. However these inconsistencies were never questioned – or at least, not mentioned as factors in the final judgment.

Let me set the scene (no I was not there, but this is from various articles printed). There was an argument of some sort at the bar. There is a possibility that some unknown man said that he was getting a gun. The groom and his friends left the bar. Ask yourself for a moment: If you had just left an argument with some stranger and you suddenly see a man rushing at you with a gun, and then some van drive up and block your exit, what would you do?

Would you wait around and ask some polite questions? Or would you try to speed away from the scene as fast as possible - even if it meant your car hitting the stranger with gun? I know what I would do - and I'm not trained to react instantly in life and death situations.

Let me take a moment and say that this judge has a record for being fair, and has jailed police and criminals alike. I don't believe he was out to get these guys. While I do have problems bringing up past criminal history (especially of those not on trial), he was justified in his interpretation of the law. My question to him is how do you justify 50 bullets at 3 unarmed men? How can you not hold them accountable for a death?

There were additional things that bothered me about this trial. Where is the remorse? The three police officers spoke about the verdict in the moments after they were acquitted. ONLY Det. Cooper seems to have a conscious about the 4 bullets he used. ONLY he, seemed to understand his actions and how they have impacted all of the parties involved. ONLY Det. Cooper, must have been raised ‘correctly’ because he is the ONLY ONE to offer some sort of apology to the Bell Family. Det, Oliver who could have faced 25 years in prison if convicted on all counts of manslaughter, felony assault and reckless endangerment went to dinner with family and friends after the verdict, spending $4,200 on dinner including $180 on a pasta with truffles dish and $575 on bottles of wine. He is the officer that has been viewed as 'cocky and has no remorse. Was this dinner yet another slap in the face of the family? I’m not judging (well, maybe a little)…

Who knows, maybe John Conyers, the House Judiciary Chairman’s visit will shed some light or at least offer a different view and recommendation so this doesn’t happen in the future. Let me go on record for saying I deeply appreciate what the police and firemen do for our city daily. During 9/11 they were on the top of their game proving they are here to serve and protect. I know I couldn’t do what they do, so my hat is tipped to you. You risk your lives to make split-second decisions. However in my humble opinion I do think that in this case it wouldn’t have ‘killed (no pun intended) Det. Oliver, and Det. Isnora who fired 11 times, to express their sorrow for the lost life of another human being – guilty or not.

The end of the story isn’t if the Bell family sues the city for $50 million dollars. The story doesn’t begin or end with Rev Al Sharpton and his ‘request’ to shut down the city. The end really isn’t about anyone saying they are sorry. The end of the story is Nicole Paultre Bell and their two girls Jada, 5, and Jordyn, 22 months, no husband or father. The end of the story is Sean Bell, 23 years old is dead and not coming back.

In my view, that’s the saddest part. When are we going to start valuing human life?

Ask Me No Questions...I'll Tell You No Lies

This past 10 days NYC has been all consumed with scandal. First there was Elliot Spitzer and not only his challenges as Governor, but also a husband. I am the last person to cast stones on anyone’s relationship – but I think that when you are a ‘public person’ there is a fine line that you walk. Maybe understanding what the words “Public Person/Public Figure” really means. There is a certain level of trust we invest in our governmental representatives, and a certain amount of your private life you give up, just by nature of the term. Personally, I don’t care who they do don’t sleep with. I don’t care if they are gay or straight…I do draw the line when they choose to engage in any relationship and use my tax dollars to pay for it.

If you really pay attention to all the news that has been shared, Mr. Spitzer was tough on crime, and always chose to play hardball (no pun intended). As New York's attorney general, he broke up prostitution rings and on Wall Street, he prosecuted immorality as much as illegality. He was disgraced after it came to light that he allegedly spent over $4,300 for a few hours with Ms. Dupre in the Mayflower Hotel in Washington. What makes this case different than Gary Hart, Bill Clinton, Jim McGreevy, Spitzer's case involves criminality. Prostitution is illegal and Spitzer allegedly paid a Ms. Dupre to take a train from New York to Washington, which also violates federal law. Some of Spitzer's financial transactions also raise legal issues. But Spitzer's hypocrisy drove the media frenzy.

Now we have David Patterson, New York States first African-American Governor. Mr. Patterson is indeed eloquent, a breath of fresh air, charming and very capable, not withstanding his near sightlessness. However, a question startled the packed Albany news conference: Had New York's governor-designee, Lt. Gov. David Paterson, ever hired a prostitute? Paterson touched his chin and leaned into the microphone, and replied, "Only the lobbyists."

Some thought given recent events, the question was in bad taste. In hindsight, maybe that reporter knew something that the rest of us didn’t yet know.

Hours after he was sworn into office, the new First Couple agreed to speak publicly about the difficulties in their marriage in response to a variety of rumors about Paterson's personal life that have been circulating in Albany and among the press corps in recent days. Yes, he too – rather they both had extramarital affairs.

Again, I am NOT judging. I will say that if you ask the question, you have to be ready for the answer. It reminds me of a friends story. Her boyfriend disappeared for several days after taking the state Bar exam. He resurfaced 8 days later, no explanation, but very tan and said that he was in the Bahamas. When asked directly if he went away with a woman she suspected he still had a close relationship with, he replied “No, she met me there.” This is when she learned you MUST ask the right question, and in Gov. Patterson’s instance, the reporter should have asked if he ever had an affair – PERIOD.

I started this by saying, I don’t care who you sleep with, as long as it’s with consenting adult and you are safe. What Gov. David Patterson did before he said that he would “uphold the laws, rules and regulations of the State of New York” is between him and his wife. I definitely applaud him for being open to marital counseling, and taking responsibility for his part in the cracks in their marriage. I wish them both well. What I do care about is the balanced State economy, and what he will do to bring this state back to the glory it once was.